You know, the W&P show is only half-hour down the road from me, but I've never been.
I've no problems with looking at tanks, military kit and people dressing up, but I do always wonder why they call it the 'War and PEACE' show - there's an overwhelming emphasis on the 'war' bit. Which is fine by me, but a bit gutless of the organisers.
I have been to the 'Militray Odyssey' show at Detling. This (from what I've heard from people who go to W&P) is MUCH better. Not only are there LOTS of people selling military kit (want an M60 anyone? Someone was selling one. De-activated), but people also selling 'historical' re-creations; which I suspect is more appealing to users of this forum.