Ive dabbled for years in various martial arts, including jujitsu ( trad not bjj) , some karate,wing chun, tai chi and a few others. I'm not into the whole grading thing .With the exception of the Tai Chi I wanted to learn what worked far more than to get myself a new belt ( and pay for the privilege). Many black belts have been battered senseless by untrained thugs.
I ended up becoming heavily into the "reality based self defence" scene ( whatever that may actually be) . Gradually I came to believe that less is truly more, a few well learned techniques that you are able to apply to a variety of situations under stress will serve better than a hundred that are less well understood - in my view at least.
I also came round to the concept of managing the "fight" way before it becomes a fight, awareness , avoidance, pre contact, defusion etc, with other options opening up should those fail.
I love the artistry of the martial arts , but for me many are no longer the fighting systems they once were, at least not as they are taught today in MOST clubs.
In an ideal world I would find a club I can get to that teaches either silat or some form of filipino martial arts, I'm fascinated by the manner in which one move empty handed can also be the same move with a stick etc.